How much genuine interest remains when one is not sexually accessible? As long as eggs and chickens are locked up and eaten, as long as men remain losers, i remain a chick, an emotional gangster. And un(fix/fuck)able.
The responsibility of a father, the responsibility of a man, if he still wants to play a role, is not to explain the world, to despair of the world, but to stand up and become the man one can choose, the man one can want. Are you a feminist? And are you one because it is useful or because it is right? Respect and equality, practice takes precedence over theory. Get your shit together.
There is a difference between proof and truth. You can prove to me that you can speak like a good father, but the truth is that there is no such thing as a good father.